Saturday, March 6, 2010

Why Be Parents?

There was a news I saw tonight. It is about a couple and their baby. The couple are drowning in the online game. They ignored their own baby who is only one year old or less. The baby was fed only one meal a day, sometimes nothing! You can't believe that was happened in South Korea but not in Africa or any starving country else. I saw the photo of their home with the baby on the bed. The baby looks like such starving babies who lives in a poor country, ran out of nutrition, bonny. There only a bed left in their house.

The couple got arrest for abusing the baby. I didn't catch on the situation of the baby. I don't know whether or not the baby was still alive. His/her health has been destroyed and need a very long time to get recovery. I hope he/she is alright.

I believe this couple addicted in the online game not just in recent days. Their problem should happened long time before they have the baby. They are very young couple. Maybe no one taught them responsibility. They just lived in their own game world occasionally met each other then get married. Maybe, in their world, baby was just another game material. Most probably thing is, they just forgot they had a baby when they drown in the game and stay at the internet bar.

I believe this problem not just took place in South Korea. This should be a worldwide social crisis.

There is a family my husband know very well. The father is an old friend of my husband and they were growing up together. The entire family included the 3 years old son spent their every weekend in the internet cafe. It was very lucky that when the son was a little baby, his grandparents and cousin were helping his parents. This is in China.

Similar stories must have happened in every country. How dangerous it will be to those babies in such families?

If you not completely preparing to be a parent, please don't give birth to a baby. They are innocent and 100 percent trust in you. Think it over before you do it.

I just Googled the news. Unfortunatly, the baby died in starving. Here I will attached the link of the news. God bless you, our little angel.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/asia/southkorea/7376178/Korean-couple-let-baby-starve-to-death-while-caring-for-virtual-child.html

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  2. What a terrible thing! I feel so sad about the babies. Why do people have children when they are not even ready themselves? Where did their responsibilities go? Maybe their lack of education of compassion and responsibilities during their childhood caused these tragedies.
    I'm very looking forward to your new post.

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